Just like that 2018 was over and we are into 2019, 2018 was a mixed year personally . I’ve never been a goal setter until the past year I feel like writing down what I want to do for this year at least I can look back.
Firstly let’s have a recap at my 2018 goals, first it was FOMO which is fear of missing out I feel like I’ve got so much better at this, I think because I haven’t had the headspace to think about other people it hasn’t bothered me at all what others have been doing, it’s not a competition I have my whole life to do the things I want. Next was Blog and this I haven’t stuck with I like some of the posts I have written this year but again I’ve not put the time and effort and because I’m so busy with work it’s now just an after thought. Driving this I did do something about after a long time looking I finally got a decent instructor through RED driving school in July, I have failed one test and got another coming up, I’m proud of myself because I didn’t think I’d like driving but I enjoy it so much, we shall wait and see now with that. Moving out was always going to be a long shot and it didn’t happen in 2018 but instead we’ve made decisions that have put things in motion instead. Lastly, time was a big thing and I don’t think I got any better at this, if anything I’ve got worse. For example I finish early at work twice a week and one of them days I fill with a driving lesson and the other I normally fill with something else like getting my nails done. I definiately need to get better at that.
Let's get into my goals for 2019:
Pass My Driving Test:
This is the final step in the process now, I've been learning for about 6 months and also I have passed my theory, so now I just need to pass the practicial I've failed one so now to try again.
Move Out
This is the biggest thing for me this year, I need to move out and have my own space as I live at home currently and have to share a room with my 18 nearly 19 year old sister and I'm 25 this year so yeah it needs to happen. Also me and Darren have been together for 8 years this year so it seems like a natural progressive step.
Blog
I think this year it's going to be a final attempt with this blog because I've been doing it now on and off for about 3 years now and too be honest I don't make time for it anymore and I don't try to. Also I've run out of ideas of what to write. I want to try one last time and because of the direction life seems to be going, I don't think right now this blog is going with it but we'll give it a go one last time if needs be.
Stop Worrying
I struggle with this especially in regards to my job where I have a lot of pressure put on me and when things don't get done it plays on my mind and it is very difficult for me to stop thinking about it even when I try and go to sleep. I know this isn't healthy and I don't know what to do about it if I'm honest but I'm determined to do something about it because it isn't healthy at all.
Slow Down
Another big one for me is I need to slow down I don't need to fill my spare time with everything I could possibly imagine, I'm young I have my whole life ahead of me I don't need to do everything right now. I addressed this earlier in my 2018 look back in regards to time, I now fill it too much and I need to slow down otherwise I will burn myself out. I'll do my best because I feel like I'm constantly on autopilot these days and can't come off it and I need to do something about it.
So they are my 2019 goals, I know this post is a couple days late but unfortunately I started 2019 with a horrible cold that I'm only just getting over. Other than that I hope 2019 is going to be a good year, we shall see what happens.
Until next time
Stacey x
Firstly let’s have a recap at my 2018 goals, first it was FOMO which is fear of missing out I feel like I’ve got so much better at this, I think because I haven’t had the headspace to think about other people it hasn’t bothered me at all what others have been doing, it’s not a competition I have my whole life to do the things I want. Next was Blog and this I haven’t stuck with I like some of the posts I have written this year but again I’ve not put the time and effort and because I’m so busy with work it’s now just an after thought. Driving this I did do something about after a long time looking I finally got a decent instructor through RED driving school in July, I have failed one test and got another coming up, I’m proud of myself because I didn’t think I’d like driving but I enjoy it so much, we shall wait and see now with that. Moving out was always going to be a long shot and it didn’t happen in 2018 but instead we’ve made decisions that have put things in motion instead. Lastly, time was a big thing and I don’t think I got any better at this, if anything I’ve got worse. For example I finish early at work twice a week and one of them days I fill with a driving lesson and the other I normally fill with something else like getting my nails done. I definiately need to get better at that.
Let's get into my goals for 2019:
Pass My Driving Test:
This is the final step in the process now, I've been learning for about 6 months and also I have passed my theory, so now I just need to pass the practicial I've failed one so now to try again.
Move Out
This is the biggest thing for me this year, I need to move out and have my own space as I live at home currently and have to share a room with my 18 nearly 19 year old sister and I'm 25 this year so yeah it needs to happen. Also me and Darren have been together for 8 years this year so it seems like a natural progressive step.
Blog
I think this year it's going to be a final attempt with this blog because I've been doing it now on and off for about 3 years now and too be honest I don't make time for it anymore and I don't try to. Also I've run out of ideas of what to write. I want to try one last time and because of the direction life seems to be going, I don't think right now this blog is going with it but we'll give it a go one last time if needs be.
Stop Worrying
I struggle with this especially in regards to my job where I have a lot of pressure put on me and when things don't get done it plays on my mind and it is very difficult for me to stop thinking about it even when I try and go to sleep. I know this isn't healthy and I don't know what to do about it if I'm honest but I'm determined to do something about it because it isn't healthy at all.
Slow Down
Another big one for me is I need to slow down I don't need to fill my spare time with everything I could possibly imagine, I'm young I have my whole life ahead of me I don't need to do everything right now. I addressed this earlier in my 2018 look back in regards to time, I now fill it too much and I need to slow down otherwise I will burn myself out. I'll do my best because I feel like I'm constantly on autopilot these days and can't come off it and I need to do something about it.
So they are my 2019 goals, I know this post is a couple days late but unfortunately I started 2019 with a horrible cold that I'm only just getting over. Other than that I hope 2019 is going to be a good year, we shall see what happens.
Until next time
Stacey x
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